They all ask the same questions

And there are 50 to choose from. And yet, here's what 95 percent of them send to me.

1. If you were taken by your date to a party where you knew no one, how would you respond?

A) Stay close to my date, letting him/her introduce me
B) Find a spot at the back bar and relax alone, letting him/her work the room
C) Strike out on my own, introducing myself and making friends
D) I would ask my partner if I could skip this particular event


2. Your idea of adventure is:

A) Whitewater rafting
B) Karaoke singing
C) Trying a different route to work
D) Ordering a dish you've never tried before


3. Which sort of date sounds like the most fun to you?

A) Attend a lecture on a topic that appeals to both of you
B) Go bargain hunting at a local flea market or antique shop
C) Go bowling
D) Visit a local comedy club


4. How would you assess your verbal intimacy skills?

A) I am extremely comfortable talking about my innermost needs and desires.
B) With the exception of a couple areas, I'm comfortable being verbally intimate.
C) I'm still learning to be verbally intimate, but my skills are improving.
D) It's hard work for me to discuss my intimate feelings.


5. How often do you find yourself laughing?

A) I crack myself up!
B) I try to laugh all the time and get serious only when it's needed.
C) Most of my time is spent being serious but I like an occasional good laugh.
D) I'm generally a pretty serious person.